Trouble in my brain

Who does not want to be loved? Who is not longing for attention, recognition, acknowledgement and for being recognised as a human being, to be seen and heard and why not for receiving a hug?

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I’m so confused.
There’s a big mess in my head.
I don’t know where to start and where to end.
There’s no problem in my life.
The only problems are made by me.
I’ve got no big threats against my life.
Then why is my brain fried?
Problems are problems, if you give them the space to be problems.
Because the only one recognizing those problems, is you.
It’s your brain telling you there’s a problem, but when is it really one?
My brain is fried with problems.
Or aren’t they such things?
Are they just thoughts, which pass my mind too many at the same time, so that I can’t see which one is which anymore?
I can’t differentiate between them.
I want things but do I have the right to?
I’m aware of my past and my failures.
I try to stop myself from doing weird things.
But…

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Grounded

Daily we are surrounded by bad news-stories via the media (television and social media). All those terrible stories can weaken us and manage to bring fear to many (for no obvious reason, because they live far away from the trouble).

Often it is better to detach because it is not possible to live day to day if you spiral into all in the grief in the world. We have to be conscious about it, but may not close our eyes and ears for the beauties that are around us. And for sure there can be found a lot of beauty, even in the smallest thing.

Each of us can help to give others a feeling of safety and comfort in their own surroundings, accepting the wide variety of cultures that can go together anyway.
A person can not love the others without loving himself first and without wanting to share with others.

Today we can see that the fear for the unknown brings many to choose for extreme right wing political groups, which make use of the fear for other people and cultures, and bring the immigration in a wrong exaggerated light. Immigration, by the way, has been there for ages. It is nothing new. Every generation has come to know about some migration.

When we are willing to learn more about the world we and others live in we shall understand the different positions better and come to accept certain things much easier.

When each person is willing to come closer to the other, and is willing to open his mind to come to understand the other better, by willingness of openness of mind and heart the little environment we live in can change, but like a domino falling can bring something bigger changing too.

Let us always remember that a spiritual shaking is always safer than a real earth shaking.

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To remember

All through life when times get tough, when things start to run away with us or when things start to get too much we often hear the advice

“stay grounded.”

  • to balance us, to remind of something solid, something steady

how exactly do we stay grounded when we can’t even trust the ground we walk on?

  • on a little Greek island = best + worst moments of humanity play out on a daily basis => difficult to stay grounded

Facebook safety check icon > pictures of Parliament + London Bridge > horrors + pictures of frantic families trying to trace their missing children

  • a family connected by love
  • memories of places we love
  • distract ourselves from terrorism on our doorsteps with the escalating rhetoric of nuclear war between North Korea and the US?
  • watch white supremacists march the streets
  • ongoing refugee crisis on shores of Italy + Greece
  • hundreds of lives still lost in the Mediterranean
  • hundreds of lives trapped in camps + detention facilities > endless wait for asylum in Europe.

=> pretty hard to stay grounded

=> have become so desensitized

= not go to denial but keep our heads?

  • most important thing = not buy into all the hate.
  • majority of people = kind + loving
  • fear + when we are really scared => ignorance can lead to some pretty extreme standpoints on issues we never really felt too strongly about before.

== to stay grounded we need to start learning more about the world we live in + we need to discover how we can make change.

Stand together, show love where you find hate and don’t let fear win.

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Preceding

Going on holiday is… silence in your head

Summer holiday time to knock and ask, and time to share

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Additional reading

  1. Uncertainty, shame and no time for vacillation
  2. What is life?
  3. Immigration consternation
  4. Would you run
  5. Mountains of information, disinformation and breaking away
  6. Fearmongering succeeded and got the bugaboo a victory
  7. Fear of failure, and fear of the unknown
  8. I Am Not Alone – By: Kari Jobe
  9. Emotional pain and emotional deadness
  10. The soul has no rainbow if the eyes have no tears
  11. Not fear or dread or blind compulsion
  12. Can We Pay The Price To Free Humanity?
  13. The chosen ones to fear or not to fear
  14. Whom Shall I Fear (God of Angel Armies) by Chris Tomlin
  15. Prayer has comforted us in sorrow

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Further reading

  1. What Makes Me Bern about Fear
  2. Fear
  3. “… Fears…”
  4. Worry and Fear
  5. Fear, Surprise, Relief, What’s Next?
  6. Courage is not an absence of fear…
  7. What Fear Can Do To You.
  8. The Power Fear Holds Over Us
  9. Overwhelmed
  10. Anxious And Worried? Pray!
  11. Celebrate Victories Daily
  12. Change
  13. Face Your Fears | Choose Joys
  14. Italy: Migrants from Riace are to be resettled
  15. Criminalization of aid puts migrant lives at further risk
  16. Migration: 416,000 more people moved to Germany than emigrated
  17. After the Crisis? Reflections on Migration Governance
  18. Turkey slams developed nations over migration issue
  19. The migration which is changing the demography of India : The illegal migrants of Bangladesh
  20. The Year of Immigration theme seeks to create a renewed sense of community in College Park
  21. Szijjarto rejects the UN Migration compact
  22. Thousands flee due to crisis, Brazil deploys army to Venezuela border
  23. Parliament condemns the Sargentini Report
  24. Crosses Erected For Thousands Of Dead Immigrants Who Never Reached American Dream – Desert Graves

From Greece With Love

All through life when times get tough, when things start to run away with us or when things start to get too much we often hear the advice “stay grounded.” We are told to “keep our feet on the ground” to balance us, to remind of something solid, something steady that can help bring us down from those dizzying heights that challenging times can take us to. But what happens when that safety net fails, when you can no longer trust the earth to keep you steady?

Recently I experienced a rather nasty earthquake which has left this question playing on my mind. When we live in a world of such uncertainty, how exactly do we stay grounded when we can’t even trust the ground we walk on?

But this idea of losing trust in your surroundings goes further than a shift in tectonic plates, for me personally anyway. Over…

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Shaped by our thoughts so be careful for influencers

Today on social media we do hear a lot of influencers. Lots of people also want to impress others and want to give others a negative feeling about themselves. In this world were there is so much materialism and so many are envious of what others have, we should be careful not to let those negative people influence us.

Let us not forget what Buddha once said,

 ‘we are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think.

Having others imprinting their thought about us on us, they could be le to pull us down in the depths of a negative spiral. Because our thoughts and actions are directly related we should

choose our thoughts wisely

and be aware of each thought that crosses our mind. Sooner or later those same thoughts may transform our whole life.

Binita a qualified teacher, who seems to be on and off jobs looks at life and talks about

9 important lessons I have learnt in life!

Life, lessonsShe has learned many lessons in her journey so far in life. Most of these lessons she learned from her own mistakes, like most of us do. Though many are afraid to recognise their mistakes or to look at them and learn from them. Benita dares to say she is

not ashamed of any of them. Some I have also learned from bitter experiences of life and a few others from observation.

Have a look at what she put together

the list of 9 best lessons in an effort to help me not just remember but also implement them in life. Hopefully, the list will be of benefit to some of you who are reading this as well.

And look also at

  1. Extra Time
  2. Positive Things
  3. Deleting Negative People

Remembering

1. What you think, you become!

2. Don’t take life too seriously!

3. Count your blessings!

4. Live in the present!

5. Be self sufficient!

6. Don’t think about other’s opinion of you!

7. Learn to say no!

8. If you want others to accept you, accept yourself first!

9. Listen to your heart!

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Extra Time

Orlando Espinosa

Instead of spending all your extra time worrying about what someone thinks or says about you, you should use your extra time pursuing your dreams and accomplish more with each passing day.

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Positive Things

Who does not know the song “Look at the bright site of life”from the movie “the Life of Brian”? Something great and positive is prepared for us, so we better do not loose time with negative people or those who do not want to hear but want to be contrary. Let us surround ourselves with positive people and with positive things.

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Deleting Negative People

Orlando Espinosa

You can’t spend all of your time with negative people and expect positive things to happen in your life! positive things orlando espinosa

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A dream you dream alone

A dream you dream alone is only a dream.
A dream you dream together is reality”.
– John Lennon

 

 

 

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An adventurous life does not necessarily mean climbing mountains


“An adventurous life does not necessarily mean climbing mountains,
swimming with sharks or jumping off cliffs.
It means risking yourself
by leaving a little piece of you behind
in all those you meet along the way.”
~Shawna Grapetin

Dutch version / Nederlandse versie > Een avontuurlijk leven betekent niet noodzakelijk bergen beklimmen

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Een avontuurlijk leven betekent niet noodzakelijk bergen beklimmen


Een avontuurlijk leven betekent niet noodzakelijk bergen beklimmen,
zwemmen met haaien of springen van kliffen.
Het betekent jezelf riskeren
door een klein stukje van je achter te laten
in al diegenen die je onderweg tegenkomt. ”
~ Shawna Grapetin


English version / Engelse versie > An adventurous life does not necessarily mean climbing mountains

 

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The corpus separatum and Mahmoud Abbas

When the United Nations voted on a partition plan for a Jewish State of Israel and Arab State of Palestine in 1947, it clearly marked a corpus separatum, a distinct international entity to hold Greater Bethlehem and Greater Jerusalem.

The Arab countries were not pleased with the UN proposal and rejected it. By May 1948 a military coalition of Arab states launched an attack on the new State of Israel.

Arab Legion soldier in ruins of Hurva.jpg

Arab Legion soldier standing in ruins of the most sacred Synagogue, the “Hurva”, Old City.

10 months of fighting, interrupted by several truce periods, took place mostly on the former territory of the British Mandate and for a short time also in the Sinai Peninsula and southern Lebanon. At the end of the war Jordan illegally seized control of three-quarters of the corpus separatum including all of Greater Bethlehem and the eastern half of Jerusalem, in a move that the world did not recognize. Israel took control of Jaffa, Lydda and Ramle area, Galilee, some parts of the Negev, a wide strip along the Tel AvivJerusalem road, western half of Greater Jerusalem and made it its capital and took some territories in the West Bank.  Jordan expelled all of the Jews from the area it seized and granted all non-Jews Jordanian citizenship in an outrageous antisemitic act in 1954.

The Jordanians gave Jordanian citizenship to the Palestinians in the newly named “West Bank” and “East Jerusalem.” They would make no attempt to give them independence or sovereignty throughout their period of illegal control until 1967.

The world one moment thought that the third world war would have started, and as such classes were suddenly interrupted and lots of people went in front of the television screen to follow the  June War, 1967 Arab–Israeli War, or Third Arab–Israeli War, which was fought between 5 and 10 June 1967 by Israel and the neighbouring states of Egypt (known at the time as the United Arab Republic), Jordan, and Syria.

Jordan (and the Palestinians who had Jordanian citizenship) who attacked Israel again  subsequently lost all of the “West Bank” and Greater Bethlehem and eastern Jerusalem. Israel took control of the area, and expanded the borders of Jerusalem in 1980, declaring

Jerusalem, complete and united, is the capital of Israel.

On September 27, 2018 the acting-President of the Palestinian Authority Mahmoud Abbas spoke to the United Nations General Assembly presenting it as if Jerusalem always was and should be the capital of the Palestinian state. Though he may forget that the Jordanians controlled the city and made no efforts to give it to Palestinians (from 1949 to 1967)

While Israel has permitted the Jordanian Waqf to have administrative responsibilities for Muslim holy sites in the Old City of Jerusalem (and no King Abdullah, Jordan has NO responsibility for Christian sites), the ownership, control and sovereignty of the city is Israel’s.

The world should remember that Jerusalem has never been a Palestinian capital and from old ancient times it was already declared to be the capital of the Hebrew people.

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Related First.One.Through articles:

  1. Ending Apartheid in Jerusalem
  2. The Arguments over Jerusalem
  3. 750 Years of Continuous Jewish Jerusalem
  4. Arabs in Jerusalem
  5. I call BS: You Never Recognized Jerusalem as Israel’s Capital
  6. Here in United Jerusalem’s Jubilee Year
  7. The Invisible Flag in Judo and Jerusalem
  8. The New York Times Inverts the History of Jerusalem
  9. Today’s Inverted Chanukah: The Holiday of Rights in Jerusalem and Judea and Samaria
  10. The Battle for Jerusalem
  11. East Jerusalem” – the 0.5% Molehill
  12. Jerusalem, and a review of the sad state of divided capitals in the world

Related First.One.Through videos:

  1. The Anthem of Israel is JERUSALEM
  2. Judea and Samaria (Foo Fighters)
  3. The 1967 “Borders” (The Kinks)
  4. E1: The Battle for Jerusalem (The Who)

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Spiritual growth expansion of self-awareness

Jeff Carreira wrote:

The purpose of spiritual growth is the expansion of self-awareness. As we grow we become more aware of who we are. Human life is our spiritual path. It leads to the gradual expansion of self-awareness. At times the path may seem random and haphazard. There is a gradual increase of self-knowledge but only in fits and starts. We have a breakthrough here, fall back there, one circumstance provides a growth opportunity; another sets us back into contraction and fear.

He also adds

Spiritual work is like sailing on the ocean. You need to understand the power of the available currents and winds and then align your sails accordingly. In the same way we learn to read and align with the spiritual currents that propel us forward into ever-greater self-awareness.

It is important that we are conscious to become a universal being awakening into high and higher dimensions of its own existence, finding ourselves embedded in a consciousness that is rigidly shaped by habits of perception.

Find more about it:

Spiritual Growth and the Emergence of the Meta-Being

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